Advent celebrations

So what are people doing for Advent this year? Any special books you’re reading, music, movies, Advent calendars, etc.?

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  • Thanks for reminding me - Every year I intend, but forget, to read Delia Smith's "A Feast For Advent". I bought it many years ago, and did read it through during a couple of Advents, but it is usually halfway through December before I think of it these days.
    I will fish it out and make sure it is to hand when it is needed.

    Advent calendars have been sent to the youngest grandsons, and I managed to buy ones that could be posted as Large Letters this year. Last time I had to pay for them as a small parcel, and that was ridiculously expensive for two sheets of thin card.
  • The twanglets (plus the potential twanglet in law) are buying slightly posher advent calendars and expecting us to pay for them!!
  • Well this isn't quite what you mean, @ChastMastr , but my Starsky and Hutch fandom group has an Advent calendar, with fanfiction and fanart for every day in December till Christmas.
  • I have bought my son’s advent calendars which have little wooden trees to decorate. Mr Heavenly and I have Divine chocolate calendars.
  • NicoleMR wrote: »
    Well this isn't quite what you mean, @ChastMastr , but my Starsky and Hutch fandom group has an Advent calendar, with fanfiction and fanart for every day in December till Christmas.

    Actually, it is! :) Cool!

    (Okay, I must know, how much Starsky/Hutch romantic fanfic is there?)
  • Lots and lots and lots. Slash, and quite explicit. If you really want more info, private message me.
  • NenyaNenya All Saints Host, Ecclesiantics & MW Host
    I actually managed to buy Advent candles yesterday; I've had the holders for years and for various reasons haven't used them for a while. I thought I might be too late as one year I tried but our local candle-provider had run out of blue and pink ones. So the first one will be lit this Sunday.

    I also buy Fair Trade chocolate Advent calendars for our children and their spouses. The ones for our son and his husband have gone in the post (and been received) and the ones for our daughter and son-in-law will be taken over there when we visit later today (yes, I'm in the UK and awake at silly o'clock).

    I've subscribed to various Advent email series in the past, and a couple of years have read "Haphazard by Starlight" by Janet Morley. This year I've picked up from our local secondhand book emporium a copy of "The Little Book of Advent" compiled by Canon Arthur Howells so I'm looking forward to starting that.
  • NicoleMR wrote: »
    Lots and lots and lots. Slash, and quite explicit. If you really want more info, private message me.

    No worries--I've never been into the series myself (I'm more of a fantasy/SF person than crime drama) and there is other slash out there to my liking.

    All righty, so back to Advent, LOL...

    I've ordered a book called Glad and Golden Hours that is supposed to be very good.

    I have a few Advent calendars (1 Lego City, 2 international snacks) to work my way through.

    I keep wrestling with getting LED/flameless Advent candles (I have cats) but maybe next year.
  • Mrs RR and I are very fond of this advent retreat:

    https://sacredspace.com/events/retreat/advent-2025/?utm_source=brevo&utm_campaign=advent2025&utm_medium=email

    plus of course a wall calender prefferably with cats and a daily choccy!
  • MrsBeakyMrsBeaky Shipmate
    edited November 27
    Our ancient Advent calendar ( a wooden tree with wooden ornaments to hang on it is still going strong). When the Beaky daughters were little they all had paper calendars (no chocolate 😆) lovingly chosen by my late mother, themed to their favourite things. She spent ages looking for the right ones for each grandchild ❤️
    Now they have all left home I send each household a copy of the digital calendar produced each year by the company I discovered when I needed to send e-cards whilst based in Kenya. The grandchildren love it, so do I !
    We always have a numbered candle too.
    I use a variety of books and online resources- whatever appeals each year.
    This year I'm also doing a two day retreat at our Cathedral and I try to get to the Cathedral Evensong as often as possible.
    I love Advent.
  • North East QuineNorth East Quine Purgatory Host
    I have a Playmobil Nativity Set which I have supplemented over the years with extra sheep, trees, Roman soldiers etc. I can set up a scene a day throughout Advent. I'm thinking of posting my daily scene on our church Facebook page.
  • TwangistTwangist Shipmate
    edited November 27
    We have playmobil and "happy land" (own brand from the early learning centre (of blessed memory)) sets.
    Visiting a national trust property at the weekend.
    I'm sure I'll be listening to Messiah on a loop and annoying everyone as a result soon....
  • Given that Advent is, liturgically, a season of preparation for Christmas, I see that many people on this thread are indeed doing just that.

    Our Place isn't doing anything special for Advent, outside the usual run of services, apart from a couple of short 'study times' after the 10am Monday Mass in December. They will be looking at the two main characters in the Christmas story - Joseph and Mary - which may help a few people who can't get to the Sunday Mass for the homilies homily.

    Our local Cathedral is having its customary Advent Procession & Carols this coming Sunday afternoon, in place of Evensong, and this is usually an act of worship well worth attending. Anyone else's Place holding a special Advent (as opposed to Christmas) service?
  • We have Advent services and suppers on Wednesdays (the English service, not the Vietnamese).

    There are some great Advent poems
    here.

  • Does anyone have a specific advent spiritual practice or discipline?
  • NenyaNenya All Saints Host, Ecclesiantics & MW Host
    Well, I now seem to have four books on my desk related to Advent so I'm hoping to instil a regular habit of daily spiritual reading again. I did have the habit... but it has fallen by the wayside. Advent is one of my favourite times of year and I'm looking forward to lighting the first candle tomorrow.
  • Our Place provides (free of charge) an Advent booklet of meditations and prayers for anyone who would like one.

    In the past, these have been written by a lady, who is AIUI a retired Baptist minister, on behalf of one of the charities which support Anglo-Catholic C of E parishes. She has now bowed out, and this year FatherInCharge has sourced a very nicely-produced little book entitled 'An Advent Calendar Of Prayers' - one for each of the 24 days.
  • BoogieBoogie Heaven Host
    I've treated myself to a TEA advent calendar 🌲🙂
  • Does that involve drinking a different brand of TEA each day?
    :yum:

    (I used to work many years ago with a lady who had been a Wren officer in Ceylon in WW2. She was something of an expert on TEA, and could tell from the taste etc. how far up the mountain the leaves had been grown... :flushed: .)
  • BoogieBoogie Heaven Host
    Does that involve drinking a different brand of TEA each day?
    :yum:

    (I used to work many years ago with a lady who had been a Wren officer in Ceylon in WW2. She was something of an expert on TEA, and could tell from the taste etc. how far up the mountain the leaves had been grown... :flushed: .)

    Same brand, different flavour each day. ☕️

  • Thanks!
  • jedijudyjedijudy Heaven Host
    My granddaughter went into my room yesterday and saw the Advent calendar I made for her mother. She was so excited and I let her check out the ornaments for it. Today she asked to add one to the tree, but I said we had to wait until Monday. I really should have let her put some on today, but maybe anticipation will make her more excited!
  • Our Place provides (free of charge) an Advent booklet of meditations and prayers for anyone who would like one.
    That’s very common in these parts. This is the first year I can recall that our place isn’t providing an Advent devotional booklet.

    The Advent wreath is on the table where we eat our meals. That will be the only seasonal decoration for at least the first week or two of Advent. (And no greenery with it until Christmas Day. The cat would eat it.)

    Ours has purple and rose candles, since that’s what we have at church. We decided when the kids were little that we’d have the same color scheme at home as they saw at church, and our place does purple Advent, not blue Advent. We did have to ditch that plan one year when we couldn’t get purple candles, so we had three darker blue candles and one light blue candle. (It always seems to me that if the blue Advent route is taken, the candle for Advent III should be light blue, not rose/pink. But I get the impression I may be the only one pedantic enough to think that. :lol ) Now, I make sure to get the purple, rose and white candles (hand-rolled beeswax) a few months ahead.

    Meanwhile, no Christmas music for me until at least the middle of December if I can help it (which I can’t in the stores). Partially that’s a standing-on-principle thing of not jumping past Advent (and of not wanting to be tired of Christmas music by the time Christmas arrives). But I’ll admit that it’s partially a Grinchy thing, too, as I really don’t like much popular Christmas music. The Choir of Clare College’s CD (well, the iTunes version of it) “Veni Emmanuel: Music for Advent,” however, will definitely get some play.



  • We have a tradition whereby we light some candles (including the appropriate number on the wreath), drink coffee and eat Lebkuchen while listening to appropriate music - often folk music as we too aren't keen on a lot of the standard Christmas fare. Today we listened to some tracks from the new "Wassail" CD by Eliza Carthy and Jon Boden.

    However this was after dinner which today was Haggis as it's St Andrew's Day and my wife is Scottish!
  • I am using "A Season of Peace Advent Devotions For Seniors". by Creative pub. Thankful they were thinking and did it in large print.
  • ChastMastrChastMastr Shipmate
    edited December 1
    I’ve gotten a couple of international treat Advent calendars plus a Lego City one, a lift-the-flap “cat family” Christmas book (though it appears to only have 12 days, counting down to Christmas (not the 12 days of Christmas)—pondering just doing half a day each day), and a book called Glad and Golden Hours. I’ve finally ordered a nativity set (it’s from eBay, from the 1980s, in a somewhat humorous style that reminds me of Aardman even though I think it’s a US creation) and a set of LED Advent candles (purple and rose) because of the cats.

    This is what the nativity set looks like:

    https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/NO4AAOSwbvpnk75r/s-l400.jpg
  • MaryLouiseMaryLouise Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    We have Advent services and suppers on Wednesdays (the English service, not the Vietnamese).

    There are some great Advent poems
    here.

    Thanks so much for this. This Advent I'm trying to avoid shops or partying and just going for long walks and reading poetry, lighting a candle in the summer evenings. It is the Feast of St John of the Cross on 14 December who is very Incarnational in his Canticles...
  • SparrowSparrow Shipmate
    I love U A Fanthorpe's Christmas poems!
  • Are any of you likely to attend - or is Your Place holding - a Blue Christmas service during Advent?

    These are intended mainly for those who find Christmas (and all the faux-jollity) painful, whether because of personal problems involving money, illness, or relationships, or simply because of the dire state of the world in general...

    The service is sometimes known as 'The Longest Night' service, taking place on or near 21st December.
  • We always have one. (And we do call it a “Longest Night” service.) I have gone on occasion, but not regularly.


  • There's usually at least one around here. The last one was sponsored by one of the local undertakers.
  • SarasaSarasa All Saints Host
    Our churches together group are holding one this year on the 21st. I'd not heard of them before, but it seems like a good idea.
  • Sparrow wrote: »
    I love U A Fanthorpe's Christmas poems!

    Oh, me too!
    ...........................

    I have, I think, about 13 nativity sets - I can't be sure as they have not been brought down from the loft for 6 years.
    I do rather miss them, but we never have anyone here over Christmas, and Mr RoS doesn't 'do' special days/seasons so it's not worth the bother, even if either of us could get into the loft these days.
    I do have a baby Jesus from the FisherPrice nativity set still accessible, as one of the little grandsons took it home with him the last time the nativity sets were in use, so it comes out on Christmas Day and stays until Jan 6.

    Forgot to post this after previewing it earlier - getting very forgetful these days :(
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