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  • Congratulations! How about a cravat? Dressy, but not a tie as such. Or go with the waistcoat idea, as you can dress those up or down, depending on fabric choices. In any event, I hope it’s a wonderful day.
  • ZappaZappa Ecclesiantics Host
    "anyone's mother's frock" would be a fine substitute swear word/phrase
  • Thank you everyone for your replies. The waistcoat is a strong contender. We are meeting with the minister in an hours time, getting a bit nervous!!
  • Best wishes for the meeting. Nerves are to be expected.
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    In due course, can you please tell us the time and date, so wherever we are, we can have a big think for you both.
  • Gee D wrote: »
    In due course, can you please tell us the time and date, so wherever we are, we can have a big think for you both.

    Monday 7 Dec 4.30pm is the big day. We want to keep it low key but are up 40 already!!
  • Climacus wrote: »
    Best wishes for the meeting. Nerves are to be expected.

    Thanks, much appreciated
  • ZappaZappa Ecclesiantics Host
    It will be wonderful - and many of us will be there in spirit
  • Zappa wrote: »
    It will be wonderful - and many of us will be there in spirit

    Thank you and I will keep you all informed.
    As it will be a church do, it will be the first in the Hunter area. Now to tell family.... not sure reactions we will get
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    You're lucky you're in a diocese where decency and charity prevails. As to the family - they probably think it's about time each of you made an honest man of the other (to adapt the old phrase).
  • Gee D wrote: »
    You're lucky you're in a diocese where decency and charity prevails. As to the family - they probably think it's about time each of you made an honest man of the other (to adapt the old phrase).

    Yes, we are fortunate indeed. Family has been informed and all are pleased for us which is a great relief. My sister thought that we were already married!! Invitations are ready to email out tomorrow. Church and organist booked. Only photographers to be organised, luckily we have invited two keen photographers!! The numbers have crept up to around 50 without the invite to the congregation which we will ask on the two Sundays prior.
  • PigletPiglet All Saints Host, Circus Host
    Are you allowed to have that many with the Plague - or is it expected not to be raging quite so much by then?
  • Iirc, 150 max* are currently allowed, with 20 (all bridal party) allowed to dance. Space restrictions apply.

    Happy to be corrected, and apologies if I'm wrong.


    * Need 4 sqm a person I believe
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    Yes, a double limit - number of people and a minimum amount of space per person. I don't remember the 150 (or any other number) of people, but definitely the 4 sqm for space.
  • Gee D wrote: »
    Yes, a double limit - number of people and a minimum amount of space per person. I don't remember the 150 (or any other number) of people, but definitely the 4 sqm for space.

    Our church is COVID safe for 75 people. We won't get near that!!
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    At your (and our) age, not everyone we may have liked to have at our wedding is still around, alas.
  • Gee D wrote: »
    At your (and our) age, not everyone we may have liked to have at our wedding is still around, alas.

    This is so true. Both sets of parents have passed on as well as favourite aunts and uncles
  • I'm on the ferry on the way back to my Island. A glorious day for sailing indeed. The South Island, at least the parts I saw, is rather spectacular.
  • Athrawes wrote: »
    Congratulations! How about a cravat? Dressy, but not a tie as such. Or go with the waistcoat idea, as you can dress those up or down, depending on fabric choices. In any event, I hope it’s a wonderful day.

    Outfits purchased this morning. Tan coloured stretch chinos for both, a pale pink shirt for me, a green check shirt and green suede shoes for K, reddish/brown suede shoes for me. The experience was made very pleasant as both the male and female assistants were very patient and helpful as was one customer and all were delighted when we confessed that we were marrying each other!! Invitations have been sent. It is all go in the Menace house!
  • ClimacusClimacus Shipmate
    edited October 2020
    The outfits sound stunning! And hurrah for helpful, and delighted, staff. And the delighted customer.
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    They sound good - but remind me of the 1950's song A white sports coat and a pink carnation/I'm all dressed up for the dance. Wish that had come to mind before you went shopping.
  • HuiaHuia Shipmate
    That song was one my Dad used to sing.

    Dennis I am delighted for you and K. May you have many more happy years together.
  • Huia wrote: »
    That song was one my Dad used to sing.

    Dennis I am delighted for you and K. May you have many more happy years together.

    Thank you, thank you very much!
  • Gee D wrote: »
    They sound good - but remind me of the 1950's song A white sports coat and a pink carnation/I'm all dressed up for the dance. Wish that had come to mind before you went shopping.

    Oh dear now I will have an earworm for the rest of the night!
  • Climacus wrote: »
    The outfits sound stunning! And hurrah for helpful, and delighted, staff. And the delighted customer.

    I must admit the customer was a dish!! Not that I was looking!!
  • I love the sound of what you’ve gone with. Hope the day goes swimmingly for you both, anyway!
  • DooneDoone Shipmate
    Sounds wonderful!
  • Athrawes wrote: »
    I love the sound of what you’ve gone with. Hope the day goes swimmingly for you both, anyway!

    Thank you, much appreciated
  • HuiaHuia Shipmate
    I should not be allowed out by myself. I rode my bike down to the shops to top up the new phone I had purchased to temporarily replace the phone I left on my brother's kitchen table it Wellington. I topped it up, had lunch then went into the supermarket. I put my back pack in the trolley with the bag of groceries and returned to my bike. I put the bag of groceries in my basket and rode home.

    I went to unlock the house and realised that I had left my back pack in the supermarket trolley, which was parked in a quiet corner of a small group of shops. My whole life revolves around my backpack - it has my keys, wallet, phone, tablet Gold card, money card and all my ID. I panicked because the person who has my spare key is currently swanning around Southland and I had the grand total of $5 in my pocket.

    I was tired after my ride, but got back on my bike and biked as fast as I could - and there was my back pack still sitting in the shopping trolley where I had left it - complete with all its contents.

    My Guardian Angel is demanding a pay rise.
  • Oh @Huia, I am so glad you found it safe and sound.
    How exhausting - both mentally and physically!
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    Good news! Did you have a strong cup of tea when you got back home?
  • HuiaHuia Shipmate
    No, I had a snooze. The shops I went to are only about a kilometre away, but there was a cross wind, so it felt like I was riding against the wind both ways.

    I think my enhanced absent mindedness was a carry over for the stress of going to Wellington. It wasn't the brother with Parkinsons I was most worried about - he seems to be better than he was when I saw him in August last year, but the youngest who was already depressed, then his childhood friend who lives nearby had a heart attack, was put on life support, then pronounced brain dead so the machines were switched off. In addition the lawyer who did the conveyancing on his house put the wrong address on the paperwork, so he has to sort that out. Being dyslexic doesn't help.

    If there's anything in re-incarnation I'm coming back as an orphan with no siblings.
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    That combination of circumstances is likely to make any of us absent-minded. Than the travel on top of it all....
  • ClarenceClarence Shipmate Posts: 46
    It’s the AFL Grand Final, played for the first time in footy history, at Brisbane’s Gabba. Thinking of rexory, the mad Cats supporter.
  • HuiaHuia Shipmate
    Thanks Gee D. I had a feeling something was wrong, but thought that it was just because I didn't have my Nordic Walking poles with me as I had biked. I must get back into the habit of looking back to check before I leave a place.

    Today the temperature here is forecast to reach 28C. It's only spring for heaven's sake! I was at Mitre 10 ( a bit upscale from Bunnings) yesterday and their Garden Centre staff were being run off their feet. It's a long weekend here so people are taking advantage of the temperatures and extra time.
  • rexoryrexory Shipmate Posts: 39
    Clarence wrote: »
    It’s the AFL Grand Final, played for the first time in footy history, at Brisbane’s Gabba. Thinking of rexory, the mad Cats supporter.

    Thanks, Clarence, please continue to think of me in mourning! I decided that it would be unwise to use "We are Geelong" as the first hymn this morning!
  • Huia wrote: »
    Thanks Gee D. I had a feeling something was wrong, but thought that it was just because I didn't have my Nordic Walking poles with me as I had biked. I must get back into the habit of looking back to check before I leave a place.

    Today the temperature here is forecast to reach 28C. It's only spring for heaven's sake! I was at Mitre 10 ( a bit upscale from Bunnings) yesterday and their Garden Centre staff were being run off their feet. It's a long weekend here so people are taking advantage of the temperatures and extra time.

    It's alright Huia, there are two or three cold fronts heading across the ditch. It's 16C here today with a howking southerly after being 32C a day or so ago. Long trousers and cardigan for church this morning instead of cargo shorts and polo shirt last Sunday.
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    edited October 2020
    You're lucky it got to 16. We had a maximum of 12, and it dropped to 9 by the time I was bbqing dinner. I've had the fire burning on low all day, lucky to have had some wood set aside for the start of the cold weather next year. With the wind, we've not gone for a walk today. We could dress for the rain, but the wind is dangerous as well as unpleasant. Not late October weather.
  • Maximum of 12! Wow. Being indoors with a fire sounds like just the thing. Is it expected to hang around, or will the warm weather start again?
  • An east coast low has formed, so it continues to blow and rain, with wet weather of one kind or another predicted for the remainder of the week, although the temperature will creep up into the low 20's.
  • PigletPiglet All Saints Host, Circus Host
    Gee D wrote: »
    Good news! Did you have a strong cup of tea when you got back home?

    Don't be ridiculous - what she needed was GIN. :mrgreen:

    Glad you found it intact, @Huia!
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    Piglet wrote: »
    Gee D wrote: »
    Good news! Did you have a strong cup of tea when you got back home?

    Don't be ridiculous - what she needed was GIN. :mrgreen:

    Glad you found it intact, @Huia!

    Not sure about the GIN - there are time when the strong cup of tea is needed and this seems to me to be one such.
  • ClimacusClimacus Shipmate
    edited October 2020
    GIN is always needed, surely. :wink:

    We are in for some rain tomorrow which should be nice. If I read the alerts right, you're having it now, Huia.

    The roses in The Esplanade (by a river, not a sea) rose garden are coming out which is nice -- or I've missed them and am only seeing the remains. There are over 100 varieties. Some small and some not as small ducklings were also swimming which made me smile.
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    Gin and tonic is great on a hot summer afternoon, but we're not as fond of it at other times. Tammie Fraser spoke of being offered one on the Britannia as being "typically English, warm and weak".
  • HuiaHuia Shipmate
    Anything but GIN - Vile stuff! I had it once at a party when I was a teenager and it made me so depressed it took me days to get over. When my mother asked me what was wrong she said it had the same effect on her, which was a considerable relief. I find tea much more comforting, although as a teenager such a admission would have been derided.

    Climacus - the roses are probably just starting out. My white one (which I have forgotten the name of, but which is apparently the most popular in NZ) has had buds for a while but it is an early bloomer. I also have buds on Blackberry Nip, a deep crimson rose with a strong scent which I planted in memory of Mum and a hardy yellow one that I planted for Dad.

    I went to sleep this afternoon and when I woke up the rain, and colder temperatures had arrived - which is OK because I haven't yet sorted my out my lighter clothing.
  • We’re due for severe storms and large hail tomorrow and Wednesday. As there is nowhere to park under cover, I may need to walk to work...
  • Gee DGee D Shipmate
    A couple of great, wet winter days here, the only trouble being that it's beyond mid-spring. Cold and wet, no hail fortunately.
  • HuiaHuia Shipmate
    I defrosted a bacon hock to make soup yesterday, thinking I would stock the freezer, now the weather has definitely turned I don't think the soup will be in the freezer for long.
  • Ha ha. I'm planning a soup lunch or dinner.

    Hope the hail is not too severe, Athrawes.
    Huia wrote: »
    Anything but GIN - Vile stuff!
    My dad drove a taxi for a while. He had many "accidents" occur in the back seat and hated the smell of the stuff.
    Huia wrote: »
    Climacus - the roses are probably just starting out. My white one (which I have forgotten the name of, but which is apparently the most popular in NZ) has had buds for a while but it is an early bloomer. I also have buds on Blackberry Nip, a deep crimson rose with a strong scent which I planted in memory of Mum and a hardy yellow one that I planted for Dad.
    That's beautiful. Blackberry Nip is in the garden (I looked up the map). I'll try and see it when the weather is nicer now I know they are starting, thank you.

    I love looking at and smelling roses. I gave mum two two or so years ago and she always tells me how they are doing.
  • Wellington MetService during the afternoon had descriptions like '9° feels like 3°. Clothing 3-4 layers one windproof''
    Never mind — tomorrow's supposed to be better and by Thursday it says 17° and all sun.
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