New Year Resolutions

Here are mine:

1. Prepare and organise for Christmas throughout the year, to avoid a stressy December.

2. Study Gaelic in an organised and sensible manner (prelim in February, exam in May).

3. Get fitter / lose weight / feel more energetic and positive and cheerful. Do more gardening for a win/win fresh air / exercise / nice environment to sit in and enjoy.

4. Continue what appears to be a winning formula of ignoring housework as much as possible, then intensive tidying and cleaning for visitors. Thus freeing up time to focus on writing.
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  • FirenzeFirenze Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    I intend to build on some trends, such as -

    Spend money on books and time on reading, rather than on computer games.

    Aim for at least one art/painting day a week.

    As for housework @North East Quine I'm waaay ahead of you in the ignoring.
  • SpikeSpike Ecclesiantics & MW Host, Admin Emeritus
    About 20 years ago I made a New Year Resolution never to make any New Year Resolutions. It’s the only one I’ve ever managed to keep
  • My 4+ years of doctorate study, combined with the pandemic, impacted on my ability to relax and enjoy myself. So my new year resolution is to spend more time on self-care and away from the computer. I want to do more sewing and spinning wool, and re-kindle my love of fabric crafts.
  • DoublethinkDoublethink Admin, 8th Day Host
    Work section

    Redacted x 2

    Boring section

    Fitness / Diet - plan made, implement plan
    Organise games collection, decide what to donate & sell
    Organise finances better - aim not to run an overdraft
    Sort under stairs cupboard

    Fun section

    Complete Baldur’s Gate 3
    Try Civ 6 with the Barbarian Clans option
    Organise city break for next period of leave
    Start drawing again
    Start poetry again



  • Spike wrote: »
    About 20 years ago I made a New Year Resolution never to make any New Year Resolutions. It’s the only one I’ve ever managed to keep

    :lol: :naughty:

    Me, too!
  • That's been mine for years, too. Repeated failures wear one down.
  • ArielAriel Shipmate
    Mine is to finish this Duolingo course before the end of 2023. I'm about to embark on what I hope is the last unit I have to do.
  • Gramps49Gramps49 Shipmate
    edited December 2023
    Not to use AI on this site, ever.
  • Gramps49 wrote: »
    Not to use AI on this site, ever.

    @Gramps49 This feels like it needs a hug. Happy New Year!
  • Gramps49 wrote: »
    Not to use AI on this site, ever.

    @Gramps49 This feels like it needs a hug. Happy New Year!

    Happy New Year to you too.

    Yep, I did get slammed for using AI the way I did. Just trying to make light of it, though.
  • Read at least 120 books; aim for 150.
  • I'm going to retire this year.
  • Spike wrote: »
    About 20 years ago I made a New Year Resolution never to make any New Year Resolutions. It’s the only one I’ve ever managed to keep

    This is mine.
  • ArielAriel Shipmate
    At some point in 2024 I will brace myself and do the washing up.
  • RuthRuth Shipmate
    NicoleMR wrote: »
    I'm going to retire this year.

    Woo hoo! I retired at Memorial Day this year. I highly recommend it. Not working is definitely working for me.
  • ArielAriel Shipmate
    I dread retirement. My income will immediately be less than half what I currently earn and it's goodbye to all the fun, and hello to juggling expenditures and making every penny count and stretch as far as it can. Anything like major expenditures will be money that I can't replace.

    I've officially put off retirement until 67 but I think in practice I'll go on until at least 70 if I can. I quite enjoy my job and I like the structure - it would be too easy to let things slide, until I'm regularly staying up late reading into the small hours, and not bothered about getting out of pyjamas the next day, unless I have to go out.
  • FirenzeFirenze Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    Having the good fortune to be born in 1950 I was able to get state pension at 60. That plus CS pension is sufficient - we've paid off the mortgage. However, I can confirm that comfortable retirement does not turn you into a Tory voter, and a good chunk of the bank balance will go to fund Labour's election campaign.
  • PigletPiglet All Saints Host, Circus Host
    I'm in a similar boat to Ariel's: I don't think I'll be able to afford to retire until I'm at least 70 (and possibly not even then).

  • NicoleMRNicoleMR Shipmate
    I have a pension, a rather good one, that I will get, thank the union, and so I can afford to.
  • MaryLouiseMaryLouise Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    Sat up with a sick dog and reflected on the year to come. I think of New Year's Resolutions as a self-flagellation industry since growing new habits takes more than a little anuary fervour or guilt.

    That said, 2023 has been a year of staggering failures and disappointments. Our community food gardening project fell apart because we had no power for the irrigation pump and floods in October washed away topsoil and retaining walls. Our adult literacy campaign lost government funding. I had to withdraw from writing and translation projects because the power cuts meant I was missing deadlines and holding everyone up. Worsening global conflicts and atrocities make many of us scared to look at the news each day. What I need this year is to build resilience and have no idea how to do that.

    May 2024 be kinder to all of us.
  • NenyaNenya All Saints Host, Ecclesiantics & MW Host
    That made sober reading. May things improve for you @MaryLouise ; indeed for all the many places and people for whom it is far from a happy new year.
  • The only one thus far, bar a variant on Spike's, is to not buy any more broken cameras and attempt to fix them. While it's fun if you get it right, it's frustrating if you don't, and takes up time that could be better spent on other things.
  • PigletPiglet All Saints Host, Circus Host
    Wishing you a much better year, @MaryLouise!
  • SarasaSarasa All Saints Host
    I too hope 2023 is a much better year for you @Mary Louise.
  • KarlLBKarlLB Shipmate
    Way my eyesight's going, 1024x768
  • Lily PadLily Pad Shipmate
    @MaryLouise I, too, see resilience as an important quality to develop more this year. My troubles seem huge to me but do not compare to what you and many others are facing. The Ship is a good vessel for helping us to realize how life works and how important it is to pass our time together.
  • MaryLouiseMaryLouise Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    Thanks @Nenya, @Piglet, @Sarsa, and @Lily Pad. The sick dog is much better and writing things down robs them of some of their power to make us fearful

    @Lily Pad it's all so relative to context and expectations, though. When I've spent time in the UK working and living there, life seemed so easy, manageable and safe for the first few months and after a while I'd find myself complaining about late buses and bureaucratic snarls and bad weather like everyone else. Then I'd fly back to the national airport in Harare (Zimbabwe) and discover the electricity had been turned off at 6pm, so passengers had to buy handheld torches to find our way though the airport and try to locate luggage heaped onto an unmoving baggage carousel in pitch darkness. Different challenges, and for those enduring war or famine it is so much more extreme.
  • la vie en rougela vie en rouge Purgatory Host, Circus Host
    Somebody else's New Year's resolution that I think I might adopt as my own: not to procure any new clothes except for ones I make myself. I'll have to make an exception for underwear, socks and the like, but otherwise any new additions to my wardrobe have to be homemade.
  • PuzzlerPuzzler Shipmate
    Not exactly a NYR, but I need to
    1. Complete the dispersal of the late Mr Puzzler’s things and some of mine as well, then clean the newly exposed areas prior to some redecoration. Deadline -end of March.
    2. Make some holiday plans. I am not brave like my 19 yr old granddaughter about to embark on a solo trip for two months. *Being rather unadventurous and very risk adverse this is not easy.
    3. Sort out some new priorities for my life as a single, not quite elderly person, before it is too late. * see above.
  • NenyaNenya All Saints Host, Ecclesiantics & MW Host
    I'm glad your dog is better @MaryLouise .

    Like @Puzzler , not really a resolution but Mr Nen and I need to do some serious sorting and decluttering this year. We may be moving house, in which case we only want to take with us things that are necessary and/or valuable (to us). We may not move house, in which case we don't want to leave the Nenlets with all this to sort out when we're no longer here.
  • SarasaSarasa All Saints Host
    My resolutions are to write a bit of my novel every day. I've been writing the flipping things for years and I really ought to get a move on. I doubt it will ever be published, but I'll feel I've achieved something.
    @puzzler, there are lots of companies out there that specialise in solo travel. I hope you find a holiday you fancy.
  • FirenzeFirenze Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    Resolved to go into the garden regularly and Commune with Nature. Managed it yesterday (ok, 20 minutes in the summerhouse with the heater on) as it was a bright, calm day - and felt better for it. But today dark and wet.
  • KarlLB wrote: »
    Way my eyesight's going, 1024x768

    Took me a while to work that out!

    I do hope your eyesight isn't a serious problem.
  • KarlLBKarlLB Shipmate
    Merry Vole wrote: »
    KarlLB wrote: »
    Way my eyesight's going, 1024x768

    Took me a while to work that out!

    I do hope your eyesight isn't a serious problem.

    Nah. Just regular 50s rigid lenses. Can't get on with varifocals so it's infinity or what my reading/computer glasses are set to.

    Floaters are the real bugger.
  • An old school friend stingingly said to my brother, 'I don't think your brother knows how to enjoy himself.'

    😞

    My brother stingingly told me so.

    So I resolve to enjoy myself more.
    'Enjoy yourself, it's later than you think / Enjoy yourself while you're still in the pink.'

    I do find it hard. I've had a lot of upheaval and bereavement on recent years and now the elder Gamaliette wants nothing to do with me. 😞

    She's said that before but generally soon comes round. It's worse this time though ...

    I dunno.

    I've sort of retired but still do bits and bobs. I suppose my resolutions, as well as what one could call spiritual 'rule of life' ones would include:

    - Walking, hiking and cycling more.
    - Catching up with old friends.
    - Perhaps going on some organised solo holidays rather than short breaks where I either knacker my knees or end up in a French A&E. Where do I find out about those?
  • Oh, and declutter ...

    And start writing the novel I've been thinking about for years and years.
  • MiffyMiffy Shipmate
    KarlLB wrote: »
    Merry Vole wrote: »
    KarlLB wrote: »
    Way my eyesight's going, 1024x768

    Took me a while to work that out!

    I do hope your eyesight isn't a serious problem.

    Nah. Just regular 50s rigid lenses. Can't get on with varifocals so it's infinity or what my reading/computer glasses are set to.

    Floaters are the real bugger.

    Hate to say it, @KarlLB , but have you been checked for cataracts? Floaters seem to be a feature of my ‘baby’ ones. 🙁
  • KarlLBKarlLB Shipmate
    Miffy wrote: »
    KarlLB wrote: »
    Merry Vole wrote: »
    KarlLB wrote: »
    Way my eyesight's going, 1024x768

    Took me a while to work that out!

    I do hope your eyesight isn't a serious problem.

    Nah. Just regular 50s rigid lenses. Can't get on with varifocals so it's infinity or what my reading/computer glasses are set to.

    Floaters are the real bugger.

    Hate to say it, @KarlLB , but have you been checked for cataracts? Floaters seem to be a feature of my ‘baby’ ones. 🙁

    I have eye tests annually.
  • MiffyMiffy Shipmate
    Fair enough. Probably my age then; a fair few friends, self included have been told they’ve got the beginnings of cataracts and floaters do seem to be getting worse for all of us.
  • KarlLBKarlLB Shipmate
    Miffy wrote: »
    Fair enough. Probably my age then; a fair few friends, self included have been told they’ve got the beginnings of cataracts and floaters do seem to be getting worse for all of us.

    Floaters get worse as you age as do cataracts They're not as far as I can see related however; cataracts are opacity in the lens, while floaters are bits shed from the retina floating in the vitreous humour within the eyeball.
  • ArielAriel Shipmate
    Floaters are bits of the vitreous humour. Some are simply too large to tune out. And I've just joined the early cataracts club.

    If anyone wants to approximate what it's like seeing through my eyes, put on a pair of sunglasses a little bit darker with grease marks, dirty specks and a grey smudge in the centre of one lens with distortion around it. For the full untreated effect, stare at an Impressionist painting.
  • MiffyMiffy Shipmate
    Ariel wrote: »
    Floaters are bits of the vitreous humour. Some are simply too large to tune out. And I've just joined the early cataracts club.

    If anyone wants to approximate what it's like seeing through my eyes, put on a pair of sunglasses a little bit darker with grease marks, dirty specks and a grey smudge in the centre of one lens with distortion around it. For the full untreated effect, stare at an Impressionist painting.

    That cheered me up, in a weird, Impressionist kind of way. Sounds similar to my experience. Bar that apparently, my baby cataracts are unusual in that they are scattered round my eyes, rather than being concentrated in the centre of the lens. The optician got quite excited at the sight!

  • NenyaNenya All Saints Host, Ecclesiantics & MW Host
    - Perhaps going on some organised solo holidays rather than short breaks where I either knacker my knees or end up in a French A&E. Where do I find out about those?
    I have a single friend who's had some good experiences with Just You holidays . Things sound tough for you just now; I'm so sorry.
  • EigonEigon Shipmate
    Just a couple of small resolutions this year for me.

    Years ago, I saw a poster on sale at what was then the Henry Doubleday Organic Gardens (they've since changed their name and I can never remember what it is). It was of a tree with 12 branches, one for each month, and the idea was that you coloured a leaf in each day to show what the weather was doing, and at the end of the year you had a colourful poster which was also a record of the weather.
    Last year I was given a large hardback book with pale green pages, for art projects, so I've just started using it as my Weather Tree book, with a tree for each month on a separate page.

    Also I'm trying to reblog more fan artists on Tumblr, so that more people can see their work.
  • BoogieBoogie Heaven Host
    I’m going to make (draw) really intricate Christmas cards. I’ve started practicing already. I will start making them next month. I made my cards last year and people really appreciated them. This year they will be better - I hope!

    I’ve bought a second hand treadmill, it’s in the shed which I’ve set up with light, heat and electricity. I do walk the dogs a lot, but not fast enough so I want do do some fast walking for half an hour a day to improve my fitness. Wish me luck 😂
  • BoogieBoogie Heaven Host
    @Gamma Gamaliel said -
    Perhaps going on some organised solo holidays rather than short breaks where I either knacker my knees or end up in a French A&E. Where do I find out about those?

    A good friend of mine goes on lots, she loves them. I’ll find out for you what the firm is.
  • Miffy wrote: »
    Ariel wrote: »
    Floaters are bits of the vitreous humour. Some are simply too large to tune out. And I've just joined the early cataracts club.

    If anyone wants to approximate what it's like seeing through my eyes, put on a pair of sunglasses a little bit darker with grease marks, dirty specks and a grey smudge in the centre of one lens with distortion around it. For the full untreated effect, stare at an Impressionist painting.

    That cheered me up, in a weird, Impressionist kind of way. Sounds similar to my experience. Bar that apparently, my baby cataracts are unusual in that they are scattered round my eyes, rather than being concentrated in the centre of the lens. The optician got quite excited at the sight!
    They won’t be scattered around your eyes, they will be scattered around your lens as that is what a cataract is, an opacity of the lens. There are several different cataract types, nuclear (central) are most common but I saw plenty of others in my years of running a cataract clinic. Cortical cataracts are quite common and appear as spokes in the lens (they tend to cause glare), this might be what your optician is referring to.
  • BoogieBoogie Heaven Host
    I’ve also joined the early cataract club. The type that causes headlights to look like sparkly stars. I also have a large floater in the same eye but my brain has learned to ignore it, so I only see it if I think about it.
  • ArielAriel Shipmate
    I forgot to mention that the muscles in my eye with the grey blot and warping have became slack so I have some kind of double vision as well and had to get glasses with a prism in to compensate. Unfortunately you can't do this with contact lenses. It certainly makes looking at the twin moons that orbit Earth quite interesting, especially as one of them is an elongated shape with a bit missing so it's quite easy to tell the difference.

    Bright lights always have haloes which isn't actually unattractive, especially on Christmas trees. I'm told that when you have cataracts treated and can see clearly again you suddenly realize how dirty your house is!

    My resolution for the coming year is to start travelling abroad by myself. The prices for solo travel and hotel rooms really are pause for thought, but I don't want to give up and spend the rest of my life confined to this island.
  • HeavenlyannieHeavenlyannie Shipmate
    edited January 3
    Cataracts can cause double vision within a single eye (muscle based double vision requires 2 eyes), usually with cortical cataracts.
    I can back up the dirty house statement, patients would often mention it.
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