Hab(b)its that make us happy.

Graven ImageGraven Image Shipmate
edited March 29 in Heaven
I like to put on my nightclothes about an hour before I retire so when tired I can just climb into bed. What habits have you acquired that give you satisfaction?

Edit: bracketing the second 'b' in the title - Arethosemyfeet, Heaven Host
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  • BoogieBoogie Heaven Host
    I enjoy and look forward to my afternoon coffee. I have an espresso in a proper espresso cup. I've collected a few posh ones, bought on vinted - so selecting the cup is part of the pleasant ritual. I make the coffee, get a biscuit and sit down with them to read my book for half an hour.
  • DoublethinkDoublethink Admin, 8th Day Host
    I have a SAD lamp, I set my alarm so I can wake up and turn it on and give it 15 mins. (At the same time I put the kettle by my bed on and make a caffeinated coffee.)

    This means when I get up I feel alert and not as if I need just 15 more mins.
  • RockyRogerRockyRoger Shipmate
    Mrs RR and I have the habit of sharing 'Sacred Space' (https://sacredspace.com/daily-prayer/ ) every morning. Day in, day out, with our cups of tea. No excuses .... after feeding the cats, of course.
    That's the 'good habit'. The( bad) habit that makes me happy is the early morning biscuit!
  • SparrowSparrow Shipmate
    When my alarm goes off in the morning, or when I wake up naturally, I get out of bed and make a cup of tea, take it back to bed and read emails, news and F**book in bed. In summer I can pull back the curtains and see my garden and the bird feeder (I'm in a ground floor flat with the bedroom at the back).
  • FirenzeFirenze Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    A summer only habit. After lunch, go to the summerhouse, open the door, set a chair to recline, and snooze.
  • HedgehogHedgehog Shipmate
    Starting the day reading comic strips (mostly online, but also in my morning newspaper). It unsettles me if I don't get a chance to read "Breaking Cat News" first thing in the morning.
  • Nick TamenNick Tamen Shipmate
    My morning coffee, both the making of (pour-over with freshly-grounds beans) and the leisurely enjoying of. Odd this should be a habit I enjoy so much, since I went 62 years without drinking coffee much at all. I call my morning coffee “my retirement hobby.”


    BTW, am I the only one who looks at the thread title with its typo and reads “Hobbits that make us happy”? :lol:


  • Nick Tamen wrote: »

    BTW, am I the only one who looks at the thread title with its typo and reads “Hobbits that make us happy”? :lol:

    That'll be a no!
  • Nick Tamen wrote: »

    BTW, am I the only one who looks at the thread title with its typo and reads “Hobbits that make us happy”? :lol:

    That'll be a no!

    I thought the same!
    :lol:

  • RockyRogerRockyRoger Shipmate
    Hedgehog wrote: »
    Starting the day reading comic strips (mostly online, but also in my morning newspaper). It unsettles me if I don't get a chance to read "Breaking Cat News" first thing in the morning.

    I googled 'Breaking Cat News' as it was new to me. Good stuff!!! It is obviouslt habit forming.
  • When I was a student nurse, my boyfriend and his flatmate (also nurses) used to call me ‘hobbit’ - I am 4 foot 11 in height. His flatmate once called me it while working with me in the orthopaedic theatre, which resulted in a consultant surgeon asking me if I had hairy feet!

    This hobbit also has a happy habit of morning coffee, a cafe latte made from freshly ground beans in an espresso machine. I drink it with Mochi the cat on my lap, having her happy habit of an after breakfast stroke and purr session.
  • CaissaCaissa Shipmate
    Was habbits spelled intentionally with 2 Bs? If not could a host correct it?
  • Two Bees, or not two Bees? That is the question - it may be a typo, but it's a happy one...
  • DafydDafyd Hell Host
    Nick Tamen wrote: »
    BTW, am I the only one who looks at the thread title with its typo and reads “Hobbits that make us happy”?
    I thought rabbits that make us happy. Which they would until I had to clean out their hutch.
  • FirenzeFirenze Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    Habbits are like hobbits except instead of hairy feet they have long furry ears.
  • Gill HGill H Shipmate
    Dafyd wrote: »
    Nick Tamen wrote: »
    BTW, am I the only one who looks at the thread title with its typo and reads “Hobbits that make us happy”?
    I thought rabbits that make us happy. Which they would until I had to clean out their hutch.

    Rabbits that make us happy could go to a whole new place… let’s not.

    I could live happily as a hobbit though.
  • NicoleMRNicoleMR Shipmate
    My previous apartment was a basement apartment in a private house, with low ceilings and sort of long shaped rooms. When my daughter first saw it after I moved in, and I asked her what she thought, she replied "I think you have finally achieved your lifelong ambition of becoming a hobbit. " The apartment was known as the Hobbit-hole from then on.(BTW just for reference, I am 5'3", tall for a hobbit.)
  • Going for the morning paper, doing the crosswords together over cups of tea with LKKspouse, followed by breakfast with coffee.
  • finelinefineline Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    Habit is an interesting word, because I have generally observed people who are very literate, articulate and intelligent will sometimes spell it with two b's. I've always imagined it's merged it their minds with hobbits!

    And such a literary link makes sense me, as the habit I find myself most motivated to build lately is the habit of reading. I know there are other more basic habits I need to acquire, basic self-care type stuff, tidying my home, but I realise that reading is something I really love, and hey, life is short, so why not prioritise what I love. I started using the Bookly app, you can use it to time your reading sessions, and it turns out that this helps me focus, along with the enjoyment of the statistics it generates.
  • fineline wrote: »
    Habit is an interesting word, because I have generally observed people who are very literate, articulate and intelligent will sometimes spell it with two b's. I've always imagined it's merged it their minds with hobbits!

    .

    Perhaps more likely because of the so-called "rule" of pronunciation that when there is a single consonant between two vowels then the first vowel is long. Often true, but not always.
  • finelinefineline Shipmate, Host Emeritus
    fineline wrote: »
    Habit is an interesting word, because I have generally observed people who are very literate, articulate and intelligent will sometimes spell it with two b's. I've always imagined it's merged it their minds with hobbits!

    .

    Perhaps more likely because of the so-called "rule" of pronunciation that when there is a single consonant between two vowels then the first vowel is long. Often true, but not always.

    That too, but we are normally alert to the exceptions. Habit is the one word I've observed where this alertness seems to often be overridden. And in my experience, often by fans of Tolkien!

  • I love my morning habits. Rise early make coffee and go back to bed. Before hopping under the covers, open the blinds and watch the sunrise. Listen to morning radio and check for newly uploaded youtube videos/podcasts.

    Rise properly around 7.30 and organise breakfast cereal and a cup of tea, take those back to bed to consume. I don't mind rising early, but like a slow start to the day.
  • Between 1800-1900 on a weekday I have an hour of painting miniatures while listening to the classic comedy hour on Radio 4Extra. Tonight I shall be painting cowboys while listening to some Hancock. Pure bliss.
  • Lily PadLily Pad Shipmate
    Not sure why, but every time the clothes come out of the dryer, I immediately fold them. Doesn't matter what else is going on, how I'm feeling or how much time I have, it's like I am on autopilot. As a result, I almost never iron and never have clothes waiting to be folded.
  • RuthRuth Shipmate
    Lily Pad wrote: »
    Not sure why, but every time the clothes come out of the dryer, I immediately fold them. Doesn't matter what else is going on, how I'm feeling or how much time I have, it's like I am on autopilot. As a result, I almost never iron and never have clothes waiting to be folded.

    I am totally with you on this. I'm not sure where I'd even put dried but unfolded clothes.
  • Ruth wrote: »
    I am totally with you on this. I'm not sure where I'd even put dried but unfolded clothes.

    In a washing basket on the bed of the child who owns the clothes, often under a cat.

    I'll evict your dried clothes from the drier, because I need the drier to dry the next load, but you're old enough to fold your own laundry. And of course, any box with clean soft warm clothes in is just asking for a cat to come along.
  • HuiaHuia Shipmate
    How kind of you to provide a warm bed for the cat. I notice Aroha being more cuddly as the temperature drops,
  • A habit introduced about 15 years ago was hanging clothes on hangers direct from the washing machine. Meant we had to install a hanging rack indoors, but well worth it. Hardly any ironing these days, mainly if we are invited to something requiring husband to wear a collared (not a polo) shirt and tie. Very rare. Daughter has some business wear clothes for work and I have given ironing instruction, but other than those instances, machine, hangers, then straight to wardrobe. Works for us!
  • JapesJapes Shipmate
    A habit introduced about 15 years ago was hanging clothes on hangers direct from the washing machine. Meant we had to install a hanging rack indoors, but well worth it. Hardly any ironing these days, mainly if we are invited to something requiring husband to wear a collared (not a polo) shirt and tie. Very rare. Daughter has some business wear clothes for work and I have given ironing instruction, but other than those instances, machine, hangers, then straight to wardrobe. Works for us!

    That's my system which works well for me. I started it when I had very limited spare space in my previous house, where the two portable hanging rails I had fitted well in that space, as well as it working for the kind of clothes I wear most. I've just carried it on in this house as well as the main bedroom has a large walk in cupboard with a rail already in it for clothes hanging purposes!

    I, um, also hang drying laundry up in the same order it will be put away. But that's a whole nother matter.
  • RockyRogerRockyRoger Shipmate
    Japes wrote: »
    A habit introduced about 15 years ago was hanging clothes on hangers direct from the washing machine. Meant we had to install a hanging rack indoors, but well worth it. Hardly any ironing these days, mainly if we are invited to something requiring husband to wear a collared (not a polo) shirt and tie. Very rare. Daughter has some business wear clothes for work and I have given ironing instruction, but other than those instances, machine, hangers, then straight to wardrobe. Works for us!

    That's my system which works well for me. I started it when I had very limited spare space in my previous house, where the two portable hanging rails I had fitted well in that space, as well as it working for the kind of clothes I wear most. I've just carried it on in this house as well as the main bedroom has a large walk in cupboard with a rail already in it for clothes hanging purposes!

    I, um, also hang drying laundry up in the same order it will be put away. But that's a whole nother matter.

    And this makes you happy? Need to get out more .....
    At the moment, both Mrs RR and I being busy, we're appear to be heading for an 'ironing pile event horizon' situation. One habit that makes us happy is keeping the door of the airing cupboard closed!
  • JapesJapes Shipmate
    Oh, I get out plenty...
  • Nick TamenNick Tamen Shipmate
    Lily Pad wrote: »
    Not sure why, but every time the clothes come out of the dryer, I immediately fold them. Doesn't matter what else is going on, how I'm feeling or how much time I have, it's like I am on autopilot. As a result, I almost never iron and never have clothes waiting to be folded.
    Same here, with the addition that if for whatever reason I’m unable to fold the laundry as soon as the dryer cuts off, the laundry stays in the dryer. When folding can happen, I run the dryer on medium for long enough to get any wrinkles out, then take things out and fold immediately.


  • ClimacusClimacus Shipmate
    edited April 12
    Morning walk through the small park [block] opposite. Sometimes I sit. Rarely bring my prayer book.

    A huge cypress appeals, as do other trees. With autumn in full swing here, me being here 2 months, and the city at around 920m [~3,018 ft], I'm looking forward to any changes in colour.
  • @Climacus

    Your hab(b)it rang like a haiku when I read it:

    morning walk, small park
    sometimes I sit, sometimes pray
    huge cypress appeals
  • ClimacusClimacus Shipmate
    You are very creative! I'm glad my ramblings led to your poetic expression.
  • RockyRogerRockyRoger Shipmate

    "Morning walk, small park
    Sometimes I sit, sometimes pray
    Huge cypress appeals".

    Just beautiful. Mrs RR can do just that on our way to Palm Sunday Eucharist. Thank you!
  • AravisAravis Shipmate
    If it’s dry weather and I have time, I hang the washing on the line and colour coordinate it. It does take slightly longer but not much. I prefer seeing a rainbow of clothes, not a jumble.
  • PriscillaPriscilla Shipmate
    Folding shirts and jumpers the way my mother did.
    Having coffee and a cake mid morning when we’re out.
  • Ooh, a coffee and cake, that's a lovely habit @Priscilla, I vote for that one!

    @Aravis, I always like to have two pegs the same colour when I am hanging stuff out. I have two new bags of pegs in the laundry, the ones outside are fit for the bin at presen.
  • ClimacusClimacus Shipmate
    I occasionally order things from overseas. With tracking you sometimes get some very interesting place names, such as on a current purchase Itasca and Carol Stream, Illinois; I like to do an image search and get an idea of some of the interesting things such as this rotunda in Itasca. Travel from my room!
  • That's what we called a gazebo where I grew up--my parents put one in the backyard when they were getting things ready to hold my wedding reception there, nearly 40 years ago. It looked a lot like this one. My future sister-in-law organized all the women in the Vietnamese church to bring potluck dishes which were all placed inside it, and one of my (non-Vietnamese) cousins was caught on film sneaking in early to grab an absolute mound of noodles before anyone else could get to them. I just about choked when we got the pictures developed...
  • ClimacusClimacus Shipmate
    Oh my!

    We have the term gazebo too but I think of it is as only a temporary shelter -- like a big open tent. But I could be very confused and maybe it has multiple meanings here.
  • It might be a language difference.
  • Climacus wrote: »
    I occasionally order things from overseas. With tracking you sometimes get some very interesting place names, such as on a current purchase Itasca and Carol Stream, Illinois; I like to do an image search and get an idea of some of the interesting things such as this rotunda in Itasca. Travel from my room!

    Carol Stream, it may interest you to know, was the daughter of builder Jay Stream, who founded the village. Wikipedia has a summary here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_Stream,_Illinois
  • Our nearby park has a gazebo that looks much like the picture. In the summer, a small band gathers to play music from there. People sit around it and enjoy picnic meals.
  • Nick TamenNick Tamen Shipmate
    That's what we called a gazebo where I grew up . . . .
    It’s a gazebo or a summer house here (American South).


  • DiomedesDiomedes Shipmate
    We have a fancy one in our local park - moved there from the seafront because of cliff subsidence. It's called the bandstand and there's music there every weekend from Easter until the end of October.
  • BoogieBoogie Heaven Host
    Our nearby park has a gazebo that looks much like the picture. In the summer, a small band gathers to play music from there. People sit around it and enjoy picnic meals.

    That's a band stand 🙂
  • Boogie wrote: »
    Our nearby park has a gazebo that looks much like the picture. In the summer, a small band gathers to play music from there. People sit around it and enjoy picnic meals.

    That's a band stand 🙂

    Sometimes, other times, it holds food for chili contests, people give speeches, and it has dolls for the pretty doll contest. People call it the gebezo. I have indeed seen them called bandstands, usually bigger ones.
  • BroJamesBroJames Purgatory Host
    I’d have said that a gazebo is a small decorated building with a roof and open sides, or (increasingly in the UK) a tent with open sides. A rotunda has to be round (often with a domed roof) but, unlike a gazebo, it can be fully enclosed. Gazebos needn’t be round and rotundas needn’t have open sides.

    A bandstand is a covered place where musical groups can play outside, frequently round, and necessarily open on some of its sides, so it may also be a rotunda and a gazebo, but ISTM that it needs to be of a certain minimum size to qualify as a bandstand.
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